InsatiablyTaken
I had the great pleasure of winning 2 different under the bed restraint systems this Valentine’s season. The first was from PipeDreams. The first 4 images are of the entire PipeDreams under the bed restraint system. 4 cuffs included. The last 4 pictures are from Kinklab’s under the bed restraint system. Cuffs not included. The middle two pictures of of Kinklab’s basic Neoprene restraints that I won with the system.
Because these systems arrived at the same time I got to do some great 1-1 comparisons on them. They both cost about the same. 40 USD. Pipedreams came from Uberkinky and Kinklabs came from Stockroom.
For a beginner that isn’t sure about this at all and does not already own wrist and ankle restraints it is a bit cheaper to buy Pipedreams as it includes 4 cuffs. Unfortunately I do not think the set is worth 40 USD. I would be hard pressed to say it was worth 20. Look at the hardware on it. It is flimsy dollar store hardware. I would totally break the crap out of it in a single hard session. As you can see the entire system is made from the teathery stuff that tends to fray pretty easily. The middle piece can be adjusted to fit any size bed. The cuffs are flimsy with bad stitching and are made of neoprene which can cause cancer. Unless you find this one on sale really cheap I am going to suggest passing on this system.
Next let us look at kinklabs cuffs. They are softer and larger and the hardware is thick and sturdy. The clasp has full range of motion so it can move. This means it will be a lot harder to put your sub in an uncomfortable position where they need to move their hands or feet. As a sub I totally approve. The downfall is these cuffs are 10-20 a set and are also made of Neoprene. Pass on these and get a semi-decent set of cuffs if you are new. If you are an old hat, use your good cuffs.
Finally we look at Kinklabs system. The hardware is again thick and sturdy. The clasps again have full range of motion. The first 3-4 feet of each teather is made of a leatherette type material. The stitching is really well done. The next foot is the teathery material. The middle piece can be adjusted to fit any size bed. I wish the hardware was a bit sturdier here but it is still a lot better than Pipedreams and will not be too hard to replace if it ever breaks. Judging by the material quality, the stitching, and the hardware, this set is meant to last. The only parts you will see above your bed will also be the leatherette so it will look nice and classy and go with your likely more expensive cuffs.
I was really impressed with Kinklabs set. I wasn’t expecting the quality I got at all. Pipedreams was exactly what I was expecting considering the history of the things the company produces. If you have any questions on the systems, let me know.
All these things and more were within a 5 foot radius of me without me leaving my room. As you can see we have covered gaming, knitting, chainmailling, BDSM, and sex toys. In a few cases these things have merged. Like the Lelo Ina rabbit vibrator that is covered in chainmaille. Not for sexual use anymore. Yes that is my personal dicebag. It is pink with a Hello Kitty head on it. I broke the thong not long ago and have been a lazy bum and haven’t gone out to buy a new one. The bondage gear is from the Sub-shop. I haven’t see my long distance fiance since I bought it so the tags are still on the flogger. The necklace on my psp? That is from Kumacrafts. She makes baller things, go look her up. That particular necklace is based on Sailor Moon’s final transformation brooch in the manga. I will give you 5 bonus points if you realized that the material under all of this is liberators microfiber. It isn’t a throe though. It is a king sized duvet cover of the material that they had on sale for a very limited run. All my shapes stick to my duvet and I can secure the duvet almost anywhere. I still need to buy a throe.
So basically my gender has nothing to do with my hobbies and it shouldn’t. Don’t judge me saying that I am female and therefore don’t like sex, don’t game, can’t be a super nerd. I covered my dildo in chainmaille. I’m pretty sure that tops most people’s nerd meters right there.
Emily, one of our beautiful and talented Dreamers, was recently featured on the Oprah Winfrey Network show Our America. We’re proud of her for sharing her story and experiences in the kink community. And, though it does sound evocative and dramatic, she doesn’t work at Sock Dreams to “make ends meet”—she works here because she loves it, and we love having her!
There can be a big stigma against people who like a bit (or more than a bit) of bondage in their lives. But just as we are incredibly body-positive, we are also very sex positive. We believe in freedom to love as you choose, as long as you are safe and consensual. Many of our customers practice alternative lifestyles, and we see nothing shameful about that. We feel that this segment paints Emily’s life in a positive, beautiful light. So please indulge us while we show off just a little bit, and share with you Emily’s story, Liberation in Restraints.
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Please note that the above video’s subject matter is of an adult nature, and there are discussions of past non-consensual sex acts. If you are sensitive to those subjects, we won’t be offended if you choose not to watch. For those who do, please keep any comments polite and thoughtful. We are real people, with real feelings. While we are confident and strong, we also do not tolerate negative comments, be they aimed at our customers or our employees.
Happy Valentine’s Day Sir. <3
So I will fully admit I freaking suck at keeping everything still whilst I attempt to bang in imprints into the metal. Second project ever with these tools and I must say it was great stress relief. I made myself a partial collar with holes on either side to be able to make it a full collar. Then I made Master a matching wrist doodad. Theoretically I can add in a jump ring on either side of both pieces to be able to link them via a leash. They are both made of hand beaten copper.
I only hit myself with the hammer once. )*(
NOT SAFE FOR WORK AT ALL
(Is it possible in tumblr to show the warning before the pic…?)
Well, dear Santa Claus, I don’t want any gift, could you please just give me this reindeer?
I’m planning to make a frostiron x’mas theme art too, but I’m afraid it will be done after the christmas day…
Can I take him home?
It’s time boys and girls, for my Scavenger Hunt Giveaway.
Before we get started, I would like to thank Shelly, for not only providing the prize, but for being so generous to my followers and I.
Rules
1. To win, you must e-mail me the ALL of the links and the name of the prize!
2. The…
Yes, to all of you ocd people from me who the notion of mystery prize more tantalizing than the prize itself. I ran through the site and have 8 letters but the word(s) they spell didn’t start with the first letter give so I am at a standstill until the next clue I suppose. :/
Someone figure it out for me, the curiosity is killing me.
So while I was adding a small border to draw in the top of this dice bag I realized that it could be a really effective mitten style restraint for BDSM. I could easily make these in pairs and reinforce certain areas to be able to handle being attached via clips to each other/leash/tethers/etc.
The main difference between a mitt and a bag would be that mitts would go in further to be able to get tight against the wrist so the sub could not escape and that there would be a gap in the mitt. This gap would be a straight line with reinforced edges that could be corset laced up so that the mitt would go over the hand and still fit perfectly to the wrist.
Depending on various factors (ring size/color, mitt size, and whether the buy would want a custom inlay or design on the mitts) I am thinking a plain pair like this in the larger than my average link size, would be around 100 USD which is just a smidgen more than two dice bags of this size due to the changes that would have to be made.
Let me know if anyone is interested in the concept or purchase of a set or what would need to be changed in order for you to be interested (such as the inclusion of a liner).
Thanks <3
Dear God, yes please.
This is some damn fine organization on a killer collection. This is what my future looks like.
It may be pretty, but it certainly didn’t smell like a bed of roses… I’m not sure leather is even supposed to smell the way it does…
Check out my Review of the 9-613 Roses Flog-Her Leather Flogger Made by Ruff Doggie Styles
Have you guys seen the original this abomination was ripped off from? http://www.detailstoys.com/high_inten_floggers.html
Now raise your hands if you are going to request roses for valentine’s this year instead of begging your sweetie not to kill flowers for you. <3
Wow… The original looks SO much better… O.O I thought it was a cool concept, which made it look nice to me, but comparing it with the original… It just can’t live up to it…
There’s a huge quality gap between handmade leather goods from an artisan and things made at a company. I pretty much always try to buy local or from small businesses employing artisan crafters for most things but especially my leather needs. After buying a few things from chain stores/brands and having them just be terrible quality I decided to shut up, save up and shell out for quality leather that would last me forever with proper care. My favorite shop, the sub-shop, went out of business not long ago. And while I cried at the loss of a great store I bought 2 floggers and a pair of wrist restraints for 90% off, which made them affordable on my college student budget. ^_^
It may be pretty, but it certainly didn’t smell like a bed of roses… I’m not sure leather is even supposed to smell the way it does…
Check out my Review of the 9-613 Roses Flog-Her Leather Flogger Made by Ruff Doggie Styles
Have you guys seen the original this abomination was ripped off from? http://www.detailstoys.com/high_inten_floggers.html

Now raise your hands if you are going to request roses for valentine’s this year instead of begging your sweetie not to kill flowers for you. <3
Bed Spread
Model: Ree Ja Kim
Photographer: Aeric Meredith-Goujon (@aericmg)
Image published with photographer’s expressed written consent. Correspondence kept on file.
Screw everything else, I want this bed. Someone craft/buy and give me this bed.
(via stillquietvoice)
my ride is here
Oh my word. Some Master/Mistress has the perfect pony play scene just waiting for them. Look at those hoof boots! LOOK AT THEM!
(Source: nyquilbaby, via ontheedgeofgeniusandinsanity)
As I was browsing my dash I saw a post saying “When he says good girl, time stands still” and I thought, this is true, I love when Master calls me a good girl. Then I started to think, what is good? That is when my mind spiraled into an extentential battle about good and evil and the wheel of time and entropy. That is when I realized, that is a good part of why I am a sub, so I don’t have to think about such things. I can just accept that I must be a good girl because Master said so and that good must be something wonderful for him to say it in that tone of voice. That is all I need.






